Writer and content creator
I am a writer and content creator. I started out in corporate America when I graduated college and eventually went on to model. Then, I started a beauty business and eventually transitioned into writing and content creation.
I was married and then divorced to a Danish man and at some point we decided that Europe would be a better quality of life and a better environment to raise our son. However, I wasn’t too thrilled about moving to Denmark after the split so I started researching where in Europe would work for me.
I found Portugal. I loved the weather. The food! The people. I started putting the pieces together on how I could make this my home. Did some research about the various visas available and discovered that the D8 would probably be the best option for me.
Initially, when I was ready to apply, I was very nervous about the process and approval. I started thinking maybe the D2 is the route that I should go. In August, I scheduled a call with Anchorless who had already helped me acquire my NIF earlier in the year. Guillherme explained the difference between the two visas.
I still went back and forth after the call mentally, but ultimately, decided to sign up for the Anchorless+ program. I spent a few months in Lisbon in the fall just to see where I would like to live and get acclimated to the culture. While there I started assembling the application components.
Anchorless helped me get my bank account, my son’s NIF, and there were also resources on the site for securing an apartment. I almost went my own way in the beginning regarding the apartment and came so close to getting scammed.
After that, I completely stopped trying to do it on my own and started consulting Guilherme with any questions or concerns I had. He was always very responsive and super helpful.
In September I got my appointment with VFS for November. Submitted all my paperwork in November. In January, I was notified that I might be declined. I reached out to Guillherme for help with the appeal. I was notified 5 days later that I was approved.
Yes, the intention of refusal. Initially, I was stressed and frustrated. Especially because it seemed that they were asking for something that I felt I already submitted.
However, I pulled myself together and remembered I had Anchorless as a resource, so I emailed Guilherme and he reached out to the lawyer on my behalf.
He then connected us and we had a call about how to move forward and what would be needed. I gathered my additional documents while the lawyer crafted my appeal. Let’s say I responded on a Monday and by Friday, I received my approval. I literally shouted in the street when I read the email.
I chose to settle in Lisbon. I was originally looking at Cascais for it’s idyllic vibes and backdrop.
However, I realized being a native New Yorker, being more centered in the city would probably feel less isolating to me.
Especially as a remote worker not benefiting from office culture as a springboard to make new friends, I felt it was important to be more accessible to people and social events.
Also, there is a big difference in cost of living between the two. I thought to myself Lisbon is an amazing starting point and I could always move in the future if I feel my life is going that way.
I think the biggest adjustment for me is that I moved here with my 10 year old son. In the US, I had the help of his father and my family, so I had downtime every other week. However, since I don’t have childcare just yet, I have to be extremely organized and focused during the school day to accomplish what I need before pick-up.
I try my hardest to strictly adhere to a schedule and maintain an organized to-do list. In the very beginning, my body was still on East Coast time and this took a few weeks to adjust to. Also, my Portuguese is limited and communication is literally my life’s work so that is frustrating for me. I’m learning but not as quickly as I would like to.
I want to engage with people more, but at this point, I simply don’t have the vocabulary to give more than basic responses when people speak to me in Portuguese. The upside is that most people speak English, but it’s still a top priority for me to become fluent in the language.
So far, I have not connected with other digital nomads, but I did start taking a local class and I’ve started to make some friends. As I feel more comfortable with childcare, I will start attending more meetups and social events.
I do attend an international church and that has been helpful in connecting with others and learning about various local opportunities and events.
Portuguese culture is extremely relaxed and casual. People are very rarely in a rush and often not prompt. This is a huge departure from American culture and can take some adjustment.
I experience it with professional email communication as well. I find myself following up more than twice to emails that I’ve sent which sometimes drives me crazy.
Definitely consult an agency like Anchorless or a lawyer to help with the process and clear up any areas of confusion. It can be a daunting process and it’s reassuring to have support and professional guidance.
Also, start the process as early as you can to account for mishaps or normal bureaucracy. I think the American attitude is to feel like you can do most anything, and you can for sure. However, it’s helpful to know that you can get assistance and clarity and you can focus on the other more fun components of an international move.
The biggest impact this move has had on my career growth is allowing me the mental space to truly grow my business.
At home, in NYC, where I’m from, I was always hustling, running somewhere, balancing several different things at once. This intense pace was necessary to maintain a certain quality of life.
However, in Lisbon, I can do more with less so I am able to operate from a place of thriving, rather than survival. This has allowed me to take more courses and invest more time in acquiring skills that my business can benefit from.
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