What made Portugal feel like “home,” and what alternatives did you consider?
Portugal felt like “home” before I ever arrived. It was a mix of intuition, energy, and very real lifestyle needs lining up all at once. The ocean, the pace, the walkability, and the general feeling of safety were things I didn’t realize I’d been craving.
The deciding factors were the coastline, as I regulate through water. Being able to walk to the ocean daily felt like medicine, lifestyle and pace, as I wanted a slower, calmer, human, and not built around nonstop burnout, belonging, Portugal had an immediate feeling of “this is where my next chapter lives, and intuitive alignment, Portugal didn’t feel like a choice; it felt like a landing place.
Real alternatives I considered were staying in the U.S. but moving to the North Carolina mountains (Asheville/Boone), or staying put in the U.S. and trying to restart my life where I was.
But none of those felt like an actual future. Portugal felt like a doorway.









